As a Man, I Underwent a Double Mastectomy: My Story of Resilience and Transformation
Chapter 1: The Discovery
From a young age, I had a sense that something was wrong with my breasts. This strange feeling was always with me, but I could never quite pinpoint what it was.
As I grew older, I discovered that I suffered from gynecomastia, a condition that causes an excess of fatty tissue in the breasts in men. Although relatively common, gynecomastia is often considered a taboo subject. We men prefer to hide it, sometimes ignoring the risks associated with it.
One day, after years of uncertainty, I made an appointment with my general practitioner to discuss my condition. Concerned, he immediately referred me to a specialized cancer treatment institute. It was there that I met a surgeon who primarily treated women. It was an unusual situation, tinged with humor, as evidenced by the name error on my file: “Madame Seblin” was the name the secretary had written.
Chapter 2: The Revelation
The first surgery to remove the excess fatty tissue went smoothly. Yet, a month later, the tests revealed a shocking new development: “pre-cancer” had been detected in both of my breasts.
I received the news with surprising calmness. The surgeon explained that the procedure would involve removing everything, including the nipples. The offer of reconstruction was immediately accepted. However, after the double mastectomy, complications began to mount. The scars proved difficult to heal, making any reconstruction impossible for the moment. Weeks passed, and despite several attempts to improve the situation, including injections to lighten the scars, the results were disappointing. My dark skin favored the development of keloids, thick and raised scars.
Chapter 3: Resilience
Despite three surgeries, the keloids persisted, and I eventually had to come to terms with my scars. The seasons became a metaphor for my emotional state: winter brought a welcome reprieve, but summer brought a surge of stress, forcing me to reveal these indelible marks on my body. To go to the pool, I even obtained medical permission to wear a swim shirt, avoiding the gaze of others.
Chapter 4: Redefining Masculinity
Breast cancer is generally perceived as a female disease. But for me, the concept of breast cancer did not affect me more than that. I had always felt a distance from this part of my body, with gynecomastia making these breasts feel foreign. The mastectomy, far from undermining my masculinity, seemed almost like a natural step, a process of self-discovery. However, the struggle with the scars remained difficult to overcome.
Chapter 5: Renewal
Through this ordeal, I found a valuable ally: sports. Since my first operation in 2011, I have immersed myself in running, Krav Maga, and dancing. Each activity became a way to channel my energy, feel alive, and in control of my body. At the same time, I got involved in associations and on social media, sharing my story to break taboos and encourage self-acceptance.
Chapter 6: Living Without Regrets
Today, I am a transformed man. I have discovered a new zest for life, a burning desire not to waste time. Elected to the Montpellier City Council, I embody a new drive, ready to face the boldest challenges, including, why not, climbing Everest! Every day, I live intensely, aware that everything could end tomorrow.
Chapter 7: A Message of Hope
To everyone struggling with illness, I send a message of courage: do not let cancer be a taboo. Accept the help offered, talk about it, and do not stay alone in this trial. And for everyone else, I recommend not hesitating to consult at the slightest doubt. Breast cancer can affect anyone, men and women alike.
Epilogue -Mikel Séblin was born and raised in Mauritius. At the age of 21, he moved to Montpellier, France, to pursue studies in communication. He now holds a Master’s degree in Information and Communication. Since 2020, he has been a municipal and metropolitan councilor in Montpellier, his adopted city. His journey inspires everyone to live fully and embrace their vulnerability. To follow his daily life and messages, visit his Instagram @mikelseblin
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