In April 2024, I noticed I had a lump in my left breast. The next day, I went straight to St. James Hospital and began my journey of check-ups.
I started with a simple ultrasound, a mammogram, a biopsy, and then I underwent surgery. The lump was sent out for further examinations, and the result was that I had breast cancer.
Some may say it’s strange for a man to have breast cancer. But the truth is, men also need to check their breasts, not just their testicles and prostate.
In Malta, around 10 men are diagnosed with breast cancer each year. When I was told I had cancer, I sat down with my children and talked to them about the new priorities I had. I had fears and doubts, just like anyone who received news of a cancer diagnosis. You start to ask yourself: How long will I live? Will I see my grandchildren grow up? Will I have to stop working? Will I live? Will I die? The hardest thing was sharing the news with my children.
I want to be of help to anyone who wants to undergo treatment for breast cancer. I have no words to praise the Oncology Center and the Malta Community Chest Fund, where I found complete support. I went to all the stations and even went to a church school to share my experience in the hope of helping those like me who have gone through or will go through this experience.
I joined Malta Male Cancer Support so that, together with others, we can support one another. From here, I urge family doctors to encourage and show men how they should examine their breasts and have regular check-ups. I also encourage raising awareness about breast cancer in men, moving from the pink ribbon to also wearing the blue ribbon.
Just as we talk about prostate and testicular cancer in men, let’s also talk about breast cancer in men. Employers should provide full support to employees undergoing cancer treatment, as I found.
Breast cancer in men is often identified when they are older. Cancer does not have a month or age. It is important for everyone to keep themselves healthy, eat well, and exercise.
You know what I say? If I were given a chance, why shouldn’t I deliver a message of courage and a positive message to others?